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by Ian Plenderleith


There's a preamble in FIFA's "Laws of the Game" that comes under the heading, 'The philosophy and spirit of the Laws.' When you read this section, it's best to adopt the lofty accent of a well-heeled Englishman, possibly a condescending headmaster at an all-boys private school. That's because the preamble is a mixture of pompous tosh and vague appeals to some kind of code of honor that only exists in the imagination of administrators sitting at oak desks writing on parchment using a silver-nibbed fountain pen.

"Football," begins the preamble's second paragraph, "must have Laws which keep the game fair — this is a crucial foundation of the ‘beautiful game’ and a vital feature of the ‘spirit’ of the game." It's telling that the words 'beautiful game' and 'spirit' are bracketed by quotation marks, as though the International Football Association Board (IFAB — the Brit-loaded committee that meddles with soccer's universal rules once a year) is indulging in heavy sarcasm. Indeed, if that sentence hasn't prompted a knowing chuckle (or a sneer), then try its follow-up: "The best matches are those where the referee is rarely needed because the players play with respect for each other, the match officials and the Laws."

Look, I agree with that sentence 100 percent. Please show me where these matches are taking place and I'll be tuning in or turning up at the gate, every week. And don't tell me it's the Montgomery County U-7 Rec League, where they play four on four without goalkeepers and don't keep the score. I've seen those games. The players are great, but the parents are certifiable. This is where the 'spirit' of the game sets out on its short but rapid descent to the filthy, abandoned gutter of sporting values.

"Football’s Laws are relatively simple compared to most other team sports ..." begins the next paragraph. Well, they were until the IFAB started fiddling around with offside and handball (among other areas) and made them much less simple to understand, to interpret or to even remember. On it goes: "... but as many situations are subjective and match officials are human, some decisions will inevitably be wrong or cause debate and discussion. For some people, this discussion is part of the game’s enjoyment and attraction but, whether decisions are right or wrong, the ‘spirit’ of the game requires that referees’ decisions must always be respected."

Must they? Then why are they not?

"All those in authority," this paragraph waffles on more in hope than conviction, "especially coaches and team captains, have a clear responsibility to the game to respect the match officials and their decisions."

Do they? Then why don't they? And if this responsibility is so "clear," why do I meet so many team captains who think it's their clear responsibility not to show respect, but to complain even louder than their teammates. When you show them the yellow card, they're astonished. They are the captain. It's their right to complain!

The preamble is now so delighted with its own rhetoric that IFAB, in the style of rugby players a couple of centuries back, just picks up the ball and run, laws be damned. Unfortunately, they run straight into a morass of paralogistical claptrap: "The laws cannot deal with every possible situation, so where there is no direct provision in the laws, The IFAB expects the referee to make a decision within the 'spirit' of the game and the Laws — this often involves asking the question, 'what would football want/expect?'"

This works brilliantly on a Sunday afternoon when I'm refereeing 22 testosterone-driven young men who may not be that great at soccer, but who know for sure who's to blame when things don't go well. The referee, of course. When they quite vehemently disagree with one of my calls (very rare — maybe as infrequently as several dozen times per game), I merely ask them, "Well, chaps, what would football expect? What would it want?" This prompts them all to stop shouting at me and we sit down in a circle to mull questions of morality, conduct and, of course, the desires and expectations of the game. Often, someone gets out a guitar and we express our conclusions in perfect harmony, applauded courteously by the half dozen spectators as we continue with a drop ball.

What does football want/expect? And who or what the hell is 'football'?

I hate to shatter IFAB's delusions, but soccer is no longer played by gentlemen in the nineteenth century. Judging by what I see on the field, in the stadium, and on my TV screen, here is what the game wants/expects:

• Fouls. Loads of them. Up against a skilled and more gifted opponent? Foul them. It's what your teammates, your coach and the fans both want and expect. Don't expect sanctions that will stop fouling, though. That's just the referee being too fussy and not realizing that this is a contact sport, where fouling is an integral part of the self-professed beauty.

• Simulation. 1-0 down and need a penalty? Pretend that you've been fouled. 1-0 up and need to waste time? Pretend that you're injured. You're doing it for the team, and it's what they want and expect. Even your opponent understands, because they'd do the same thing too, despite their fake outrage.

• Hysteria and dissent. Whether you're on the field or on the sideline, dispute decisions with the conviction of a candy thief who's just been put on Death Row. Go on, intimidate the referee. Make them think twice before they blow against you next time. It works, and the chances are that you won't even get a caution. Plus, you're just showing how 'passionate' you are about winning and how much you care about your club. It's expected, especially by the media.

• Cheating. Just don't get caught. It wouldn't be appropriate to mention the English Premier League club Manchester City at this point, so we won't. Suffice to say, everyone's at it, so it's all right — or, at least, that's the current argument of fans supporting certain teams that have recently won a slew of titles after being (over-)pumped full of dirty money.

I'm sure you can come up with your own extended list of wants and expectations that reflect the game’s elusive spirit. That's the problem with the preamble — we can interpret it any way that we want, depending on our own ethical vision and how we evaluate the importance of sport in our lives and in society as a whole. What I want is as follows: scrap the nonsensical lecture, re-write the rules, and ensure that referees have the courage and the protection to apply them. But I’m not naive enough to expect it.

While I can definitely understand the frustration of a fellow referee I think trying to blame the IFAB for trying to elevate the game to an ideal is illogical and misplaced. The blame lies with the participants and coaches that ignore fair play and need a referee at the game to avoid bedlam. Then again we have become uncivil as a society so all of this bad behavior is only a reflection of our society.

I get his argument but he also loses a little credibility by showing an obvious anti British bias when criticizing the IFAB which is actually made of of members from England, Wales, Ireland and Scotland, so the Brits are actually the minority on the IFAB. Try lumping the British, Irish, Welsh and Scottish with one broad brush and you will quickly be corrected as obviously each one of these folk are intensely proud of their specific heritage.

On the whole blaming the lawless behavior on the IFAB is like blaming lawmakers for writing laws that criminals violate and this makes no sense.

In spite of the decline of sporting behavior and lack of fair play I have had games (yes a few) where I barely blew the whistle and everything went very well. There are still decent people out there and there are still teams and/or clubs that hold their Coaches, parents and players to a high standard. Unfortunately there are the exception.

To add a point the very nature of the game is to have passion therefore I EXPECT players, Coaches and supporters to be BIASED, it is a reflection of their passion. I expect moments of temporary insanity since all they care about is winning, after all they are partisans and that is the very reason I am there, to maintain order, decorum and respect.

When they get out of line they get sanctioned with a yellow or red card and that usually works very well. It could be a fine balance but referees that let things go for too long can easily lose control of the game and then both teams lose respect for the referee because in fact they expect that one person to do their job.

Any unacceptable comments or behaviors from ANYONE towards me while I am working a game is swiftly prosecuted otherwise they will lose respect for me and then I might as well go home.

People around the game are smart enough to see a referee show a lack of confidence, bad body language and a fear to make a tough decision. They can be like a junkyard dog that can smell fear on the part of the referee right away. Not happening on my watch, while I am not perfect, I show respect for all but also demand respect back.