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Officials in all sports are underpaid.

Here's the deal. No ref, no game. No game, means you(the sanctimonious prick here) don't get to live vicariously through your kid, because you were never good, your kid's not good and that's just the reality.

If you believe the refs suck show us how it's done. Oh that's right you lack the balls because you're a gutless prick.

I officiate hockey, and I would never officiate soccer or basketball because a bunch of pricks have direct access to you. Want to come after me, step on the ice, and we'll go a few rounds. You'll lose.

But here's the rub for all you parents and coaches who argue with refs, who think assault and battery is perfectly acceptable. If the outcome of the game, or the way it's officiated is more important to you than your kid, you're there for the wrong reasons and should just stay the f**k home. YOU are the problem.

Ahh refs obviously need the money which is why they put up with us sanctimonious pricks. So no games = Refs having to get a real job to pay bills.

I don’t believe every ref sucks but Lately the majority I’ve encountered are way below average..

Hockey…. I didn’t even know that was a sport still. That’s a sport that will go no where because of the 7000$ fees for a kid sport.

You are another of these malcontent jerkoffs who knows nothing other than if someone says white you say black. Hockey is alive and well and will continue to be, so much more than soccer.

As someone who spent way too many nights at the Garden in the broadcast booth with Jim Gordon and Marv Albert engineering the WHN broadcasts in the late 60's and early 70's, and currently watching the excitement as the Rangers go after the Stanley Cup it is beyond clear how much more popular Hockey is than soccer. Your posts and you are laughable, and besides, you are a punk...posting anonymously shows what a chicken [****] you are...I think we have all had enough of your Trumpy babble and obvious mental and personality issues.

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Hahahah this guy sits back on his fat ass is what he's saying. He's like read 228 pages???? He'd rather yell at the ref WHO MADE THE CORRECT CALL because he can't read the laws lol.

Your kids have literally been blacklisted. Forget the refs, no team is gonna take them or you.
There has rosters have been uploaded I'm sure to every assignor and club in the area.

I was at an older Barca game just after this happened, that is how I found out about it. Everyone was talking about this, not just the parents but the players too, you guys really embarrassed your own club!
You ruined your coaches reputation and income. You are a lone parent in this discussion. No one here thinks you macho. We pity you.

I'm sure the video will soon go viral, its so sad what you did these kids. They deserve better than you. Clearly its the refs that care about your kids soccer career then you do.

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I guess this is the only way for a lonely loser to get attention. You could probably use a friend BUT I seriously doubt that you are making any here. I suggest that you watch out! Maybe you are new here but the moderators here really enjoy playing with their food. LMAO


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I don’t even understand why your still allowed on this board. What lies are you spreading today about who KK is merging with. How many kids showed up for your tryouts? Ooh wait aren’t you getting Nash ahhh no that was just another lie that KK spread

KK is merging with no one, and the kids showing up at KK tryouts currently going on now has been the biggest turnout since the club's beginning.

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I don’t even understand why your still allowed on this board. What lies are you spreading today about who KK is merging with. How many kids showed up for your tryouts? Ooh wait aren’t you getting Nash ahhh no that was just another lie that KK spread

OK, Matt Arteca. Do you really want to do this? You and your wife were thrown out of KK Athletics due to the fact that you couldn't control your nasty mouths. You know what you did. REALLY? Do you think KK will allow such behavior? It looks to me that you are not dealing with a full deck if a year later you are still crying. Be happy that you are gone since we are that bad. Oh and watch yourself, you babbling idiot, you are now playing in my sandbox!!!!! I would suggest that you get some therapy. You need it.

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This board is disturbing.

Youth soccer is a cesspool with these parents.

I feel for these referees. Sure they get paid, the abuse is unbelievable. The commentary on this board is reprehensible. I love to watch my kids compete. But I don't understand the lack of respect for another human. There are a number of people lacking human decency on this board. This sport is headed in the wrong direction. There is 0% chance I would want my 13 and 17 yr old boys who love soccer to be referee's.

To the referees that continue thank you for all you do. Please realize the 98% of the parents respect you and appreciate you being there on the weekends.

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The leagues should have zero tolerance for abusing behavior from coaches and parents, period. Enforce it. Throw the book at this club. Smart parents will pull their kids out and go tryout elsewhere! Their children will grow up to think this is ok.

Those thugs are probably abusive at home as well!
Awww sweet heart ❤️ please tell one club that doesn’t behave this way?
Valencia,,Susa Blue,bwg,lisc,east coast, the only crazy parents are from Barca and susa b11

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Part of taking your kid to tryouts is seeing how your kids fit in with the team; including style, coaches, teammates, and PARENTS. Toxic parents lead to toxic culture. You have to really consider the environment before accepting a spot, as the kids will be in it 4-5 days a week for 10 mos. And you will be standing next to these parents every weekend. What is best environment for your kids to develop? U9-U12 are strictly developmental age groups. That’s why they are “pre-academy”. The game results are meaningless for the players and just meant to provide a platform for them to practice the skills that they are learning during training sessions. Of course the kids are Uber competitive by nature and want to win, however some clubs put emphasis on results so they can attract new parents (ATMs), not develop the players and this is why we have @$$hole parents ruining youth soccer. I can deal with the snowflake Karen parents who rant at every perceived bad call or slight once a week, as long as they’re with the other team, but I don’t want my kids to be around them or their kids on any of the other six days if I can help it.

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If a team has a problem with a referee, they have the option of calling the league (Garry Grossman) and request that the referee in question not be assigned to their game, period. It is just a matter of following up with the league, that’s it. Someone from the team, coach or team manager, has to put the time and effort into it…but, hardly anybody does. That’s the official process. Do it if you have a problem and follow up.

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If a team has a problem with a referee, they have the option of calling the league (Garry Grossman) and request that the referee in question not be assigned to their game, period. It is just a matter of following up with the league, that’s it. Someone from the team, coach or team manager, has to put the time and effort into it…but, hardly anybody does. That’s the official process. Do it if you have a problem and follow up.

I dont think Grossman controls the ref assigning, and I also dont believe Grossman cares. Grossman is interested in your money, period. That is my 2 cents based on conversations I've had with him over the years. Gary is another soccer whore and POS as far as I am concerned.

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Grossman doesn’t control the referee assignments but he has great influence if he gets involved. He is making a crap load of money from these clubs so, he will likely care.

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Grossman doesn’t control the referee assignments but he has great influence if he gets involved. He is making a crap load of money from these clubs so, he will likely care.


Wrong-o....my guess he is on his boat which appears to be docked outside his house in Florida, and couldnt give a [****] about the referee assigned to your team. Why not send him a postcard and ask him? His address according to public records is

125 QUAYSIDE DR
JUPITER, FL 33477
Located in PALM BEACH County

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Larry the coach's name is Edwin Mejia he used to be our coach back in the day with Boca. He was and still is out of control with the reffs and is scared to displease the parents and that is why this happened. As for the offenders my son used to play with his son, his name is Hector Rodriguez. Another abusive loud mouth idiot. The parent that spits on the reff is an ex gangbanger, last name Campos the goalie's father. He also got in a fight with our previous coach a few months ago.
Lol you sound kinda hurt lol
They didn’t accepted your son in the team?🤣

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Larry the coach's name is Edwin Mejia he used to be our coach back in the day with Boca. He was and still is out of control with the reffs and is scared to displease the parents and that is why this happened. As for the offenders my son used to play with his son, his name is Hector Rodriguez. Another abusive loud mouth idiot. The parent that spits on the reff is an ex gangbanger, last name Campos the goalie's father. He also got in a fight with our previous coach a few months ago.
Lol you sound kinda hurt lol
They didn’t accepted your son in the team?🤣

Sounds to me if you think that this is the case then the poster and his kid lucked out!

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Larry the coach's name is Edwin Mejia he used to be our coach back in the day with Boca. He was and still is out of control with the reffs and is scared to displease the parents and that is why this happened. As for the offenders my son used to play with his son, his name is Hector Rodriguez. Another abusive loud mouth idiot. The parent that spits on the reff is an ex gangbanger, last name Campos the goalie's father. He also got in a fight with our previous coach a few months ago.
Lol you sound kinda hurt lol
They didn’t accepted your son in the team?🤣

Sounds to me if you think that this is the case then the poster and his kid lucked out!







Sounds to me like you’re kind of bitter!!!!

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This thread has turned out to be ‘Gross-man’.

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Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

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Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

Where was this? Is there a video of this incident?

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Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

Where was this? Is there a video of this incident?

And lets see if EDP forces them to forfeit their season out like they did to the younger team

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Officials in all sports are underpaid.

Here's the deal. No ref, no game. No game, means you(the sanctimonious prick here) don't get to live vicariously through your kid, because you were never good, your kid's not good and that's just the reality.

If you believe the refs suck show us how it's done. Oh that's right you lack the balls because you're a gutless prick.

I officiate hockey, and I would never officiate soccer or basketball because a bunch of pricks have direct access to you. Want to come after me, step on the ice, and we'll go a few rounds. You'll lose.

But here's the rub for all you parents and coaches who argue with refs, who think assault and battery is perfectly acceptable. If the outcome of the game, or the way it's officiated is more important to you than your kid, you're there for the wrong reasons and should just stay the f**k home. YOU are the problem.

Ahh refs obviously need the money which is why they put up with us sanctimonious pricks. So no games = Refs having to get a real job to pay bills.

I don’t believe every ref sucks but Lately the majority I’ve encountered are way below average..

Hockey…. I didn’t even know that was a sport still. That’s a sport that will go no where because of the 7000$ fees for a kid sport.

My guess is that you think most refs are way below average is because you have no clue about the LOTG or how they are applied...

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Who said crappy wages
I get 85 dollars for the middle for 90min, thats almost a dollar a minute
What "part time" job pays 60 dollars an hr, tax free all cash
Lol
We make good money, don't belittle us, I probably take home more cash a weekend than you guys do at your jobs after taxes for a weeks wirk


Ohh and by the way I wasn’t trying to belittle anyone I was making a point that it seems to be the same excuse I keep hearing on here justifying the incompetent reffing. They all say the same thing

“We have too many games”
“We barely make enough”
“ parents and coaches keep yelling at me”
“I gotta drive all over to get to different games”

Maybe not you but from the majority on here this is what is being said.



Not true...

I have too many games because I choose to take that many.
I make a lot of $ reffing and it's 95% cash!
Parents or coaches who yell at me spend the rest of the game in their car.
This used to be true but assigning has gotten better lately.

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Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

Where was this? Is there a video of this incident?[/quote]
Half Hollow Hills West. I believe the whole game was and I’m sure some video will surface sooner than later.

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[quote=Larry Miller][quote=Anonymous]Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

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Where was this? Is there a video of this incident?
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Half Hollow Hills West. I believe the whole game was and I’m sure some video will surface sooner than later.

If there is video I hope someone sends it to me. The identity of the sender will always be confidential.

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Apparently nothing has changed at Barca since the original incident. Another Barca parent confronted a referee minutes ago at a boys you 16 EDP game and cops had to be called to escort the referees to their cars.

The referees had to be escorted to their cars by the police? I find this troubling. In other words AFTER the police showed up it was still necessary to have the police escort them to their cars and the adults had not cooled down and left yet? This tells me that the police themselves determined that the so called adults at the game were considered a threat to the physical safety of the referees. This is not acceptable and since they showed up there is a police report about this incident. Let’s stay tuned because the league will be taking action on this also.

What would have happened if the police were not there?

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Part of taking your kid to tryouts is seeing how your kids fit in with the team; including style, coaches, teammates, and PARENTS. Toxic parents lead to toxic culture. You have to really consider the environment before accepting a spot, as the kids will be in it 4-5 days a week for 10 mos. And you will be standing next to these parents every weekend. What is best environment for your kids to develop? U9-U12 are strictly developmental age groups. That’s why they are “pre-academy”. The game results are meaningless for the players and just meant to provide a platform for them to practice the skills that they are learning during training sessions. Of course the kids are Uber competitive by nature and want to win, however some clubs put emphasis on results so they can attract new parents (ATMs), not develop the players and this is why we have @$$hole parents ruining youth soccer. I can deal with the snowflake Karen parents who rant at every perceived bad call or slight once a week, as long as they’re with the other team, but I don’t want my kids to be around them or their kids on any of the other six days if I can help it.
You meant to say Metoval, Gottschee, and all the “MLS next” 😂 aka I want all your money

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The club where the red card was directed and the club of the guy that came running from the sidelines should be fined heavily, sanctioned if not banned! It's one thing to disagree with a refs call it's a whole different thing to come onto the field and yell at a ref let alone attack one. I hope that the guys are caught and charges are pressed immediately as well. I am sorry for that ref.

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